I've heard this said in several tv shows and movies. One character kisses someone not their significant other, or has sex or whatever. They get caught, and what do they say? "It meant nothing" LIES! It does mean something, maybe not necessarily to the cheater but it certainly means something to the person being cheated on. Now, this has never happened to me so I'm just going based off how I think it would feel.
If my boyfriend/husband kissed another woman while he is in a relationship with me It would mean everything to me. It would mean he's interested in someone else, it would mean he doesn't love me, it would mean he can't really be trusted. It would mean he just plain flat out doesn't care about me or our relationship. Like I said, I've never had the misfortune to experience this myself and I know people make mistakes, but every time I hear those words, "it meant nothing," I wait for the cheated on to rebut with "it meant something to me." But alas, I am always disappointed. Why do writers not think of that. The one that gets hurt never flat out tells the cheater that it was not meaningless, that "it meant" nothing is a BIG FAT LIE.
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I agree. You should be a writer miss Emily. I've been watching Greys Anatomy and it seems that everyone cheats. I've never been cheated on but I think i would react the same way you said. Cheaters make me angry. I find myself yelling at the tv all the time while watching it haha
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